Tuesday, October 31, 2006
Saturday, October 28, 2006
Thursday, October 26, 2006
outlook is magical !
Wednesday, October 25, 2006
wonder nob hill twin powers activate
passive-aggressive behavior (sucks, is unwanted, intolerable & seemingly inevitable)
Description taken directly from wikipedia:
Someone who engages in passive-aggressive behavior will typically not confront others directly about problems, but instead will attempt to undermine their confidence or their success through comments and actions which, if challenged, can be explained away innocently so as not to place blame on the passive-aggressive person.
In some instances of passive-aggressiveness, the person will solicit the confidence of others as to their ability to perform duties, and then purposely sabotage those duties through procrastination or mishandling responsibility. Subsequent demands for performance are laid aside with claims of interference by the demanding parties or some other condition outside the control of the influence of the person who is engaging in passive-aggression, when in fact the delays and poor performance are due to the person's internal perception that to perform the task at another's demand is a demeaning insult to them. The omission of performance leaves the person in control of the situation, and allows that person to continue the aggressive behavior toward others. In cases where passive-aggression behaviors may indicate a personality disorder, these behaviours can persist even if it means personal loss to the passive-aggressive person, i.e. job loss or loss of esteem by others.
Some passive-aggressive behaviour may result from society's conditioning of individuals; direct confrontation can lead to harmful consequences. For example, confronting one's manager may lead to the loss of opportunities, such as being passed over for a promotion or even losing one's job. Not all passive-aggressive behavior is problematic or a sign of a disorder, but it may still lead to isolation from others due to frustration from dealing with the passive-aggressive individual.
Often passive-aggressive behavior manifests itself in individuals who view themselves as "peaceful". These individuals feel that expressing their anger through passive-aggressive behaviour is morally favorable to direct confrontation. Indeed, there are many cases where passive-aggressive behavior may be more effective, and in that sense more rational, than direct confrontation.
*thank you wikipedia for clearing up the inevitable...and for this knowledge on human behavior - good 2 know why it takes place!
Tuesday, October 24, 2006
a star is
Fox in town for Oracle World seeks ...
Get your oracle on all week long...
facts printed in San Francisco Chronicle
Tuesday, Oct. 24, 2006
ORACLE OPENWORLD BY THE NUMBERS
16,000
Hotel rooms booked for Oracle conventioneers tonight, the peak night of the festivities.
275
Buses rented by Oracle to shuttle people around San Francisco to venues and hotels.
100
People who work full time, year-round on the annual convention.
124
Miles of cable for computer hookups.
1
America's Cup yacht owned by Larry Ellison on display at Moscone North.
35
Ads on Craigslist as of Monday afternoon seeking sexual liaisons at the convention.
13
Number of those ads placed by men looking for women.
21
Number of those ads placed by men looking for men.
One ad was placed by a woman looking for a woman.
1998: Year Elton John was knighted in England. He will be performing for the convention at the Cow Palace, along with Joan Jett, Devo and Berlin. There was no information as to why none of the acts has had a top 10 hit since before the Internet became popular. This concert is tonight 10/24.
Monday, October 23, 2006
Sunday, October 22, 2006
Saturday, October 21, 2006
Friday, October 20, 2006
whilst sitting on a park bench
Thursday, October 19, 2006
great minds
Wednesday, October 18, 2006
something Audrey Hepburn said once...
(it was read at her funeral years later):
For attractive lips, speak words of kindness...
For lovely eyes, seek out the good in people.
For a slim figure, share your food with the hungry.
For beautiful hair, let a child run his/her fingers through it once a day.
For poise, walk with the knowledge that you never walk alone... People,
even more than things, have to be restored, renewed, revived, reclaimed,
and redeemed; never throw out anyone.
Remember, if you ever need a helping hand, you will find one at the end of each of your arms. As you grow older,
you will discover that you have two hands; one for helping yourself, and the other for helping others.
Tuesday, October 17, 2006
Oscar Wilde on men & women
Monday, October 16, 2006
Sunday, October 15, 2006
Saturday, October 14, 2006
Friday, October 13, 2006
Thursday, October 12, 2006
Wednesday, October 11, 2006
C'est moi
hummingbird break
for flight
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